Honorary maids and bridesmaids usually give weddings. Often, with the help of the bride’s mother. There may be more than one bridal shower, sometimes a coworker will give a shower at work or in a restaurant close to work. The prospective groom’s family if they live far away, I want to take a bath myself. One word of warning, you should not invite anyone to a shower that is not invited to a wedding. It’s like saying I will take your gift but don’t want you at my wedding. Ask the bride he wants in the bathroom.