What I Wish Everyone Knew About Date Kiss.
Most guys may not know or do not have the slightest idea if a girl is ready to be kissed. These guys often sit beside their girls and continue talking to the extent that they suddenly realize how the lips of their date are so kissable.
They later realize that they need to take control, but this would mean disaster if done wrong. This may result in a situation where the man may not have a second chance for another date with the woman.
Table of Contents
- Kissing tips, advice
- Advice for guys
- A Piece of Advice for girls
- First Kiss- Advice for both guys and girls
- Six steps on how to French kiss
If a guy has the opportunity of finding himself talking to a girl and wondering if she ready to be kissed, he may gently touch her hair and give a compliment about it.
If the girl shows a positive response, this may be a sign of getting closer to a first kiss. Hence, you have the opportunity to get closer and try to reach for her hair again.
Lay a hand on her hair tips and simply gaze on her lips and eyes. For the fact that she does not resist you from getting close to her is a sign that she is comfortable. This is a positive sign for you to go ahead and have a date kiss.
Some guys try to summon courage by going out on an adventurous date in order to make the date kiss more polite and natural. One typical illustration is a man who regularly takes a girl to a small boat ride on a river.
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Having sailing along the river, he went on to direct the boat to a place covered with trees and fireflies – really a romantic place to make a date kiss.
A man can also take her blind date to some ancient ruins in a local spot and manage to spend time walking until dark. These ruins usually light up at night.
The guy can take his blind date to the top of the mountain where they can see the city all beautifully lit up. This is when the guy has the chance to make a move in order to date kiss with her.
Kissing tips, advice
We have all had those situations where we were with someone we really liked, and we always ask a series of questions on the back of our mind how do we kiss that person? Do we ask them? Can we just take the risk and kiss her? Shall we wait for more time? If so, how long do we wait?
These questions can be somewhat discouraging due to not knowing exactly what to do next to bring yourself closer to that special someone.
There are, on the other hand, a few key steps and signs that we can watch out for and do to increase the probability of bringing ourselves closer to that special someone.
Advice for guys:
When you have an appointment with a girl and you are walking around or just talking, you have to understand that it is your responsibility to make a move! In our society, it is generally believed that Girls have to be passive and receptive. Therefore, she is expecting you take charge in escalating the touching that will finally lead to date kiss.
You should be the first one to take the hand of a girl when you are out with her. Holding her hand is the first step towards bringing yourself closer to her. You should observe her if she is comfortable by touching her shoulders or hugging her. As you progress doing this, watch her grow more and more comfortable with your touch. Hence, you have a chance of kissing successfully instead of just going for the kiss out of the blue.
When you built this kind of touching comfort, get her and yourself into some sort of location where two of you could either sit or stand and talk comfortably. As both of you talk, start fondling her hair tenderly and look into her eyes. If you feel that she’s calm with that, move in closer and closer. but if she doesn’t withdraw, go for the kiss, since she relaxed with you touching her hair and standing so close, most likely at that point she already wants to kiss you anyway. If she withdraws or behaves somehow, relax for a bit and continue building comfort with her. Resume normal conversation and try again later.
A Piece of Advice for girls:
Generally, girls are viewed as the ones who are kissed, rather than the ones that kiss. It’s just a matter of personal choice and a personal set of beliefs as to how you want to go about this.
Most guys find it difficult kissing a girl for the first time, so you ought to make him feel relaxed by accepting his touch or even initiating non-intrusive touching yourself, like holding his hand or embracing him and being close to him. If he experiences like you’re accepting him and enjoy his friendship and being close to him, he’ll most likely go for the date kiss.
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If you want to kiss him, it is going to be rather risky since some guys might feel you’re too desperate to hang out with. But you can tell him you want to kiss him if you feel he is too shy, and let him kiss you. This way you preserve his male self-esteem and still get kissed
First Kiss-Advice For both guy and girl:
The first Kiss should be light and bring pleasure to both partners. Don’t be in a hurry and start thrusting your tongue down his or her throat. Just lighten up your tongue and softly touch your partner’s lips and tongue. The kiss should be in a gentle manner, yet passionate. As two of you get comfortable kissing, you can progress to a more aggressive and deep kind of kissing, such as French kissing. French kissing is essentially the kind of kiss where there are lots of tongues and sucking action.
Conclusion: Just let it flow and let it come to you naturally. Make touch comfort over time and when the time is right, try to move closer to your partner so that the kiss can naturally happen.
Six steps on how to have your first kiss
- Set the scene. Make sure that the atmosphere and time are right. Slow down, take a deep gasp and let go off any anxiety you might have. This will help a lot when you are French-kissing.
- Dampen your lips. Dry lips do not move well together, make sure you do not want them to be soaking wet either. Just a gentle brush of your tongue over your lips will be enough to moisten them. It is always useful to have lip moisturizing when you are French-kissing.
- Head Position. If your mouths meet at close range, you will not be able to French-kiss easily. To avoid this, lean your head slightly to one side, typically to the left. Make sure that both of you do not tilt your heads to the same side.
- Close your eyes. Although this generally happens by nature it is always best to keep it in mind. As you move toward for the kiss, look into your partner’s eyes; once you are close to your lovers face, close your eyes. It can be a bit of discomfited and not to mention a turnoff to be French-kissing with your eyes opened. In any case, ask your lover.
- Start with a gentle and soft closed-mouth kiss. The French kiss is an open-mouth kiss, but do not dive in open-mouthed like you’re going to eat them; instead, open your lips very slowly as you kiss your lover. Bear in mind, it is better to start a kiss with closed lips, not to mention stylish.
- Practice. First-kiss takes a lot of practice, but hey I would not mind practicing French-kissing all day.
The above are the tips and the guidelines for the boys and the girls to make a right kiss when they are dating each other. The first kiss result in fear for a shy guy. A guy needs patient and more wisdom when dealing with the girl of his dream.